Comments on: Straightening my life out!!

By: Vids

Vids — Fri, 10 Aug 2007 21:46:01 +0000

@sachin – aaa.. i don’t know n i don’t care! i’m a grown-up.. i have the right to talk!!!

@Ray – thanks a lot :-)

By: Ray

Ray — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 12:21:54 +0000

Vid, very interesting write up your first blog was…just loved reading it though I know it was not a very pleasant experience for you but I love the way you have written it up.

Regards,

Ray

By: sachin

sachin — Tue, 10 Jul 2007 14:48:12 +0000

nice entries yaar…and should say that ur taking a lot of risks….relatives onnum blog nokkar ille..???…:D

By: Vids

Vids — Fri, 06 Jul 2007 18:43:31 +0000

thank u for the comment, pradheep. i believe tht i’ve made a good decision….. :)

@ raghav – i think i’ve told u already tht the letter is on its way.. n my new entry will be published tomorrow..

@ sachin – y does it have to be jealousy always? believe me, its just plain irritation! thank u for all ur comments in my blog :)

By: sachin

sachin — Fri, 06 Jul 2007 17:41:56 +0000

I think being in a hostel is a similitude model of the real life ( a little engineering brain coming into play )…..we’ll have to meet with different kinda people in life…..everyone differs from each other……every person is unique……and some people will be very different from the rest of society…….in malayalam we’ll call them ” ithu enthoru janmam edey..??? “….hehehe…..i feel it’s such a person who was with u in ur hostel…….and there’s one more thing thats found more in female genus more than in males…..JEALOUS…..asooya…..i think thats the root cause……hehehe…..anyways really good post…….real life blog posts are good to read…..

By: Raghav

Raghav — Wed, 20 Jun 2007 18:00:23 +0000

hmm.. so this is ur new site….
guess what im going to be back at blogging soon…. hehe u dont have to miss me anymore :P

anyways.. long time no see.. wassup at ur end ??? and remember.. u still owe me a letter

By: Pradheep

Pradheep — Sat, 02 Jun 2007 17:07:57 +0000

… you have to decide on if you have to stay with her or not. If you are nt able to adjust forget it. we cannot always search for some one who can change for us right. Lets be our way.. you be in your way !

By: Vids

Vids — Wed, 23 May 2007 17:44:21 +0000

I’m not a sadist, nor am I a person who has no moral integrity.. If u think that this blog-entry makes me all that, then so be it.. I have clearly discussed why I cannot say it to her face.. She’ll deny it.. or act aloof.. or both… I won’t even get the satisfaction of havin said that to her face, for cryin out loud!!! But I’m just askin u not to judge me by this blog-entry.. Coz u weren’t there.. And if u were and u blogged about it later, the only difference would be in the amount of profanity.. I’m sure!!

Anyways, thanks for stopping by :-)

By: Jasim

Jasim — Wed, 23 May 2007 17:03:19 +0000

It’s been interesting to read your accounts of ur current life. More interesting was your account of the supposedly close-friend and room-mate with whom you’ve been at loggerheads always.

I too have had a hostel life, and friends similar. And there’ve been times when I felt like I should write something like you did. But then there were certain thoughts that stopped me from doing that, which I’m going to share with you now.
1) I degrade myself by publicly stating that I’ve been hypocritical with myself and the other person by acting like friends even though we were not really.

2) I prove that I have’nt the courage to tell him/her straight to face that I dislike her.

3) Above all these, I take the chance that the person about whom I’m discussing would either read this, or be informed about this by others, and feel extremely bad on being discussed in so bad a light so publicly. That portrays me as a sadist/a person without any moral integrity.

I didnt want these 3 things to happen to me, and so I refrained. People who read your venom against your former room-mate might think the same about you too..

I’m not being too critic, but I like your blog, I like your language, and just thought I shall leave my remark.

Take Care.