Very sarcastic… Ideally, familiarity should breed concern.. I mean, I should be able to forget all inhibitions while talking with someone I’m very familiar with, rather than be more conscious about it.. Technically, thats how it should be.. Why the question "How many times have I told u that u r not doing it right?"??? Rhetorical, I’ll say… If you’ve said it too many times before, and if there hasn’t been a change till now, maybe you should start realizing that it can’t be changed at all.. But I’m afraid nobody’ll be able to back me up there.. Not that I don’t like to change.. I usually try to make myself appealing to others.. But I’m not bound to change by force other than that of my own.. No obedience? hmm.. Interesting… I’ve never asked that to me! Am I not obedient..? Wow! I’ve no answer to that one!! Well.. I am…atleast…60% obedient.. But I’m a better daughter and sister than what I used to be.. Really… Sometimes I like to irritate people with my behavior just to leave me alone.. I do not take orders. I do not negotiate beyond a certain level (as opposed to the fact that I’m a peace lover). I give in only to one emotion. U wanna bend and fold me? Instead of breeding contempt, try speaking to my heart..